Link, the reason we stopped (and perhaps SHOULD have stopped) using the word murder was because it made us into hypocrites. What? That's right. We wanted to call abortion cold, pre-meditated murder, but the moment we were asked about whether those teenage girls that got an abortion should be sent to the electric chair...well, we started backtracking and coming up with weasel moves to get out of going that far.But if we are going to call it MURDER, then, at the very least, they should get life in prison without parole, don't you think? I don't.For one thing, the notion of aborting something smaller than the period at the end of this sentence does not carry for me the same moral force as aborting something that clearly has a human form. Yes, in the abstract, or in an intellectual argument, the point can perhaps be made that it is a child, but the emotional force of murder is greatly diluted when the victim is not even distinguishable as a human. Sorry, but that's the truth. It doesn't mean that abortion at even the earliest stages is not wrong, but it does mean that you can't expect anyone to feel the same way about that as they would if a three-year-old child was killed.I have found that those who call it murder and DO think the woman should be jailed or executed do so NOT because that is their heartfelt belief...but because they know that failing to do so wrecks the logic of their argument, and they'd rather have an argument than have mercy.For ME, I finally realized that while there may be some women who absolutely are purposely killing what they know to be a child, etc., there are plenty of young girls who, caught up on their emotions, made a bad decision and got pregnant. Now, tormented by what their parents will say and do, they resort to the animalistic ethic of self-preservation. Under other circumstances, they would have been happy to have the baby...but not under the actual circumstances. So, I decided to stop calling it murder (since I was not about to send a girl to prison or the electric chair over it)...and decided to call it what I think it really is: a TRAGEDY. Further, while there will ALWAYS be people who will hold on for abortion no matter how barbaric or evil it is, there are also people who, if not called baby killers, etc., might actually have a reasoned conversation with you and come to a different view. If I'm not trying to persuade them, then, fine, pull out all stops and call them evil baby killers. But that begs the question of why I am arguing with them at all, right?