Have you ever applied for a job and the interviewer is all praise for you and your resume'. As you leave you know you have the job. He (or she) has practically said so, but they are obligated to talk to one more applicant, but they do not look promising.The phone doesn't ring, later you finally call them. Oh, I'm sorry I thought you were notified, we filled that position.There are people who think they are doing youa favor by all the accolades, but do not have the ability to say, You look good, but YOU will not fit! OR The boss has a nephew who WILL GET this job!I would think in the case of preachers/pastors it is good intentions to help boost your feelings, not thinking of the let down later. AND yes it hurts Some facts but mostly just my
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