Absolutely DD, I love that comment and it is so TRUE! It is a joy to see someone using logic in human lives, DD.Losing a mate must be the tops in BAD. Then when and if, earthly physical love again finds a home, many people and family DO NOT understand and again the 'left' person is put thru the wringer of emotions.A BIG AMEN to DD's comment! Yeah I remember when Lamar Vest' wife passed. There were some eyebrows raised when he found new love anyway he handled the whys? with some good humor he said , she needed a purse and I needed a nurse