I have a question for you. If suddenly, one of you had to put on 100 pounds, yourself, or your spouse, which one would you choose?If it we me, I'd choose me. An extra hundred pounds on my wife would bother her more than 100 extra pounds on me would bother me. An extra hundrd pounds on my wife would probably bother me more than 100 pounds on me would bother me, too. Health-wise, it would not be good either way