How often have we heard someone when talking about a loved one use the phrase they know the way. It's almost as if God is going to give them a pass because they know what is right. The second time honored phrase is I brought them up in church.I can be somewhat direct. I ask, Are they serving the Lord? Who rules their life? What if they died right now?After much waffling the person will finally say, I guess they would be in hell.I respond, Then stop making excuses. They are lost and undone. Begin praying for and witnessing to them from that standpoint.Sometimes loved ones can be in denial, too