For instance, the Calvinist will insist that the Arminian thinks that a person can get saved a MILLION times, then fall away, then be saved again.The Arminian claims that Calvinist believe that one you get saved, you can become a homosexual, genocidal maniac...and still be saved.In other words, we paint such extremes that OF COURSE you have to be right.In truth, I imagine that a person can get saved, fall away, and be restored at least 70 x 7. I think I would at least win that case in heaven's court--assuming it is sincere repentance.But it is more likely that such often falling away is not followed by true repentance--which would, I think, lead one to make a better attempt to live for the Lord. HOWEVER, I have known a number of people who when through, oh, I suppose, a dozen or so episodes over a long period of years. They would be serving God...then they were out of church, perhaps living in sin, etc. And yet I feel that God forgave them EVERY TIME...because I think that every time they were utterly sincere. And I think they made it. I cannot go on anything but my own discernment, but I believe it is valid.