I guess the first thing I should say is that Aaron's take on this passage in the Bible is interesting, but I don't think it's really addressing what the passage is about. This man was full of demons, which is why he hung out naked in the tombs, had supernatural strength, and harmed himself by cutting himself, etc. Demonic power is very real, though we don't talk about it much these days, and most folks are probably a little (or a lot) afraid to mess with it. Not that I have had a lot of experience, myself.I think what Aaron is talking about is, in fact, a very real thing, as well, but perhaps something different. What Aaron (and Bro Bob and Cojak) discussed seems to me to fall more in the realm of someone who is troubled in the soulish man (his mind, his will, and his emotions) but not possessed with a demon. We can become sick in our souls, but this doesn't mean we're possessed. This is the part of us that becomes depressed. And if we have lost someone close to us, being depressed and sad is perfectly normal. I have heard it said that our spirit is the part of us that is eternal and lives forever. This is the part of us that gets saved when we accept Jesus. But even after we're saved, we have to deal with our soulish man who may need lots of healing. Say a person was molested as a child. She gets saved, but the soul that was wounded as a child still needs healing. A man loses his spouse. He is still saved but his soul is wounded and needs healing. Jesus can still heal those wounds, but it is often a process that happens over time. I don't know if any of you have ever dealt with a tormenting spirit, but I have, and it was an awful experience that lasted a couple of months. God has never allowed me to talk about this much, but I believe this is more what the man in the tombs was experiencing. This attack happened mostly in my mind, and it was as though the thoughts were not thoughts I would normally have, that the thoughts were literally coming from outside myself. I believe now that I was being oppressed by a demonic spirit, speaking lies to me. The only thing that brought me through this was speaking the Word of God. When these thoughts would come against my mind, literally the only thing that helped was speaking the Word. I thought it would drive me crazy because it was so different than anything I had ever encountered. I sought the counsel of a couple of close friends and prayer warriors who helped me pray through this time. I even thought about this passage in the Bible and for the first time I understood how it could have driven the man crazy, especially if there were 6000 demons fighting him.Bro Bob - I know your life has changed a lot since you lost Regina, but I don't think you're a demoniac. You've suffered an awful loss, and it will take you time to grieve this loss. Allow yourself the time to grieve. Don't let others push you, and tell you that you should be over this by now. You committed a large part of your life to your wife, and this isn't something you get over quickly. My sister lost her husband a couple of years ago, and she says her life is forever changed. She has no interest in marrying or even dating again. And that's her/your decision to make. I've noticed a lot of men tend to remarry fairly quickly because they don't know how to be alone, especially when they've been married a long time. That is their own personal decision and completely up to them, but I tend to think their wives would not want them to be alone and would want them to find happiness with someone else if they can. (I know my husband would need someone to help him if anything happened to me! LOL) I watched a FB friend (online, not literally) who lost his wife of many years grieve for quite some time, to the point that I was getting really worried about him because he seemed so devastated by her death. But eventually he met the right woman, and they are very happy together now. He hasn't forgotten his first wife, but she is in glory, and he is still here. He reached a point where he was ready to move on, and it's been a good thing for him. Anyhow, that is my take on this subject. I'd love to hear your thoughts.. More of Him...less of me.twitter.com/camiracle77www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=691241499&ref=name