Having a Santa at church promising to grant wishes could definitely cause some problems, especially if the parents can't live up to it. Seems a bit over the top. I don't think we've ever had a Santa at church, either.We allowed our kids to believe in Santa as long as they would, but when they asked if he was real, we just told them, It's fun to believe he is. We never made a big deal out of it, but we let them be kids as long as they wanted to. I learned Santa wasn't real in a Christmas message at church when I was 5 years old. Not really the ideal way, IMHO.Will tell you a funny Santa story...when my youngest was around 8, he didn't really believe in Santa anymore, kinda questioning if it was real. My kids were home schooled for a lot of their childhoods, so they didn't have a lot of other cynical kids to deal with re: this. That year, he asked for roller skates, which I emphatically told him no, he was not getting roller skates for Christmas. At some point, I changed my mind & got him the roller skates he wanted. When he opened them, he said, I know Santa must be real, cause Mama would have NEVER gotten me this! LOL A very fond memory for me now, since I haven't seen him in 8 years...but I'm still praying & believing More of Him...less of me.twitter.com/camiracle77www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=691241499&ref=name